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Just a reminder: For the first time ever, I’ll be at Becker, Minnesota’s, Faith Lutheran Church for their arts& crafts fair tomorrow from 10-2. They have food, a car show, and fun. Come see me tomorrow, Saturday, 9/18/21, to talk about Clearwater, Minnesota history and my Main Street Women’s series including “Scruples & Drams” and “Pins & Needles.”
Contact Us (faithlutheran-becker.org)
Last night, I listened to this song on my Sirius radio as I drove home from shopping. One of my favorite songs, I can remember when, where, and why I heard it first: Lake Harriet, 1966. like a lot of Clearwater girls, I was a nanny for a family who lived on a corner a block or two from the lake.
I’ll be alone each and every night
While you’re away, don’t forget to write
Bye-bye, so long, farewell
Bye-bye, so long
See you in September
See you when the summer’s through
http://See you in September See you when the summer’s through
This would be my second and last summer down there taking care of the couple’s four children. I had left a boyfriend (seriously–can’t remember who) and so many friends back home. Besides having a very good friend somewhere across the lake (neither of us can remember what their names were, but the family was related to my summer family somehow), I was lonely. I got paid every week $15. The father of my new family was a lawyer, and eventually, became a judge in Hennepin County. Some said he was a tough and rough-mouthed attorney and judge. But he was always kind to me. He was seldom home except for mornings, returning from his office late at night. I once did a wicker basket of ironing for them. His wife who was also very kind gently requested I not iron his shorts with starch anymore.
I kept in touch on and off. I stopped to see the family when I worked for North Star Abstract downtown Minneapolis, close to where the Metrodome was built and close to the Hennepin County Court House. On occasion, I bumped into the lawyer-husband down there as well. Time went by, and I moved back home, closer to my new job with NSP (now Xcel) at the new Monticello Nuclear Plant. I knew there were controversies about this new state endeavor, but seriously, at the time, I felt safe. I had to wear a safety badge measuring any radioactivity I could be receiving, these hard-working chemists, engineers, and scientific experts in their fields were all authorized and kept us safe.
One night some information (I can’t remember what anymore) got out and was covered by local newspapers, television newscasters, and even the nightly world news. The next morning, the gates nearest to the main building where I worked were lined with protesters, carrying and waving picket signs, voicing their concerns for the safety of the world. I was ushered toward the gate by one of the guards. Ignorant of all the concerns or feeling safe in the arms of those who made me feel safe? I was too busy typing manuscripts, procedural manuals, and letters to various government oversite people and taking oodles of phone calls as the plant’s secretary to the supervisor and receptionist to really pay much attention. Yet, I soon learned out there against the line that tried stopping me from entering the building was my former employer’s wife. Maybe she was a protestor all along, but apparently, over the years she took on many causes. Many years later, I learned the couple had divorced. Yet, he defended her and even a couple of their children who protested with her.
Isn’t it funny how certain melodies and lyrics, songs remind you of things?
Well, tonight is the end of our summer vacation. The Minnesota State Fair ends tonight. My grands start back to school this week. The nights are cooler, and the days are not as hot as they were. I will continue to sell books online at cynthiafrankstupnik.com, and at 3 more September events.
Schedule for the remaining days of September:
This upcoming weekend, Sept 11-12, Rice, Minnesota, for the Old Creamery area along Highway 10, from 8:30-6:30 on Sat.
September 18, Becker at the Faith Lutheran Church for Fall Festival and Heaven on Wheels Cars Shows, 10-2
September 25, Sartell at the Sartell Community Center, from 9-3.
For now,
Bye-bye, so long, farewell
Bye-bye, so long.
And I hope to
See you in September
See you when the summer’s through
in Rice, Becker, and/or Sartell
Cindy
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Thank you, Buffalo, for such a great opportunity to visit with interested and interesting non-fiction and fiction readers. I had a glorious time (although it spitted rain, I had to hold on to my umbrella pole because of the wind, it was chilly, it was warm, and I got stung by a bee).
Why am I frowning? Not because of my future audience, but the hour. I woke at 5:15. By the time, Becky drove me to Buffalo and helped me set up, it was 8 in the morning– me–who doesn’t crawl out of bed before 8:30-9!!
To this crowd and all others: I am sorry if I sometimes get too animated when I am talking about the history of my former community, Clearwater, Minnesota. It is the teacher in me (taught English for 25 years, was raised with HISTORY/HERSTORY–from both parents. Dad had great pride in his home state of South Dakota, specifically, north of Yankton and German-Russian. Mother had an interest in all things Minnesota, her deep American roots as well as her European roots.)
My writing has been inspired by what my parents inspired in me. One of my favorite subjects is women and their everlasting plight to be heard, believed in, and respected. The struggle the average woman has had to face throughout her lifetime needs continual documentation because men didn’t do everything.
In all my research, I have found my small community, Clearwater, Minnesota, to be a microcosm of all that was good and awful in the world for women at any given time. Some are natural-born leaders and respected by all. Jennie Phillips, my protagonist in Scruples and Drams, was a leader in her community. From her views on the patent medicine products she sold in her store, to some of the other over-the-counter health products, how she feels about a high school joining the elementary and upper grades to the existing school building, etc, villagers, both men and women, newspaper reporters, asked her advice on important matters of the day.
The oldest girl in the family, smart, teacher-turned pharmacist, business co-and then full-owner of Phillips’ Drug Store, Jennie may have been successful and respected, but she faced disappointments as well. One was that her brother’s name legally had to be included on the Phillips; Drug Store sign in 1910 because she was a woman and wasn’t smart or trustworthy enough to handle business matters. Only men held those honors or responsibilities. It wasn’t Jennie’s first disappointment as a woman trying to pursue a career in a man’s world, though….
See what I mean? I get so excited and tangled up in my subject, I forget to shut up. I will stop and let you read my books. My next event is in Rice, Minnesota. Sept. 11-12. Saturday 8 a.m. to 6. pm and Sunday 9-4.
Cindy
I won’t be singing “Rain, Rain, go away,” anytime soon. We registered 1.20 or so in the last 24 hours. Wonderful relief and some greening taking place. Hoping for more very soon.
In addition, I am honored to have Crossings, a Stearns History Museum journal, publish one of my short stories from Postcards from The Old Man and Other Correspondence from Clearwater, Minnesota. This article is about the years the Frank family lived on Warner/Abeln Lake. If you are a member, you have probably seen the article already. If you purchased Postcards, you basically have the same story, but if you don’t have either, you can probably go there and pick up a free copy.
This small lake is my home away from home at times and a place where I go to relive memories and get new ideas.
So far, my August-September events have been wonderful. My next show, where you can come to visit and buy or walk around and see what others are selling.
Future events:
Sartell this weekend, Oct.14 from 10-3 at the Scheels/Bernecks 1109 1st St S, Sartell, MN.stearn
Buffalo, MN Chamber’s Art & Craft Festival – Aug 21, 2021 9-3:30
Old Creamery Arts and Crafts, Rice, MN, September 11-12, 8-6, 9-4, 405 Main St E Rice, MN
Come find Cindy Stupnik at the Mill Stream Art Festival in St. Joseph,MN. She is here till 9. If you can’t make it, check her out at www.cynthiafrankstupnik.com … Looking forward to book #3 in her Main Street Women series:”Where Two Rivers Meet.” If she ever stays home long enough to finish it.
It was fun, it was BUSY, it was LOUD! I was there last night until 9. I did well, met new people, sold lots, even more, sold lots of books on my webpage. Thank you, sister Becky, for the help, posting, and taking pictures. Oh, and did I tell you it was basically a weather-wonder weeknight? I arrived at 3:45 and it was about 80 and then a breeze with cool air was almost constant.
So many people packed in this alley, so much talking, laughter, singing, music, and dancing. It was wonderful! But I have to admit, it was and is difficult.
FYI: I am hard of hearing– totally deaf in my right ear–have been for as long as I can remember. I am so happy Becky stuck around to translate for me. Everyone was patient; THANK YOU! But this is a situation that can be a blessing and while not a curse, a hindrance. Like my sister always says, and I paraphrase: She’s deaf, but she can hear things she is not supposed to hear.
I have a busy month ahead:
August 14: Sartell 10-3, at the Berneck’s/Scheels parking lot.
August 21: Buffalo 10-4, Buffalo, Minnesota–Chamber of Commerce Arts and Crafts
September 11-12: Old Creamery, Rice, MN, arts and crafts.
Hope to see you soon.
What a swelter we are experiencing. While some in Europe, Ohio, Valley and the southern U.S. are being flooded, up here in Minnesota, hot and dry, dry, dry. And we can’t forget the fires and smoke. But I don’t have to tell any of you that. From Ely to Albert Lee, we are in one form or another of drought. I found the diagram below from the online EPA helpful:
While some of us have experienced severe drought before, like from the Dirty Thirties, many of us heard about it from those who lived through it during the Great Depression. National Geographic states the following as well:
There is still a lot of debate about the connection between drought and global warming, the current period of climate change. A 2013 NASA study predicts warmer worldwide temperatures will mean increased rainfall in some parts of the world and decreased rainfall in others, leading to both more flooding and more droughts worldwide. Other scientists question the prediction that there will be more droughts and believe global warming will create a wetter climate around the world.
Yet we wait and pray for rain, enough to grow on. Some of the fields are past their opportunity for growth, but necessary rain will fill our lakes, rivers, and groundwaters, which are in great need as well.
I have to admit I am waiting inside in the a/c as much as possible. For me, I’ve had another type of drought. Plagued by a lack of imagination and clear thought, I suffered for a couple of months. I could not move on in my book, nor could I cough up a poem. Writer’s block happens in one form or another to many authors. I covered up my remorse by trying out another form of creativity–attempting to take my already written poetry and designing them into cards. My struggles during this dry spell seem nothing now compared to my lack of skill in cutting and stamping straight. I’ve truly enjoyed my work when it turns out okay but this is not a natural skill for sure. I keep working at it, and spending lots on stamps, dies, embossing pads, inks, pens, you name it. With so much invested, I keep trying. And so the story ends, that I have been experiencing more rain and my dry spell seems to be handling my drought. Now the problem is I don’t have enough time for both endeavors and the moral is When it rains, it pours. Not in a bad way though.
The next few weeks are busy for me. I am hoping for cooler weather…rain to come at appropriate times for all of these events are OUTSIDE:
August 2nd St Joseph, MN 5-9 pm for Monday Night at the Millstream Market.
August 14th, Sartell, Berneck’s Auditorium on Pine Cone, 10-3:30.
August 21st, Buffalo Arts and Crafts, Buffalo, Wright County. 10-4
September 11-12, Rice Arts and Crafts–by the Old Creamery, Rice, Minnesota. 10-4 both days
More to come. I hope to see you all soon.
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We had our first celebration party Saturday night. No masks, no social distancing. Lots of good b-b-q’d food–burgers, brats, ribs. Add all the other picnic food, and we stuffed ourselves. Later, our house was surrounded by individual fireworks. One time, I wondered if flames licked our roof. All turned out fine.
Yesterday, we had a later start to our 2nd celebration and had to travel for it. I started watching Yankee Doodle Dandy in the morning, and again for the nearly twentieth time wasn’t disappointed. The black and white screen didn’t disappoint either because the music and acting related brought color of its own type and emphasized family, patriotism, a united country. All of which we can be proud. Like other generations who bounced back after our county’s crises, we are bouncing back from Covid–I hope for a long time now. On our way home, the sky was lit up with all sorts of colored lights–north, east, west anyway–we saw colorful expressions of “Let freedom ring,” celebrating our county’s freedom.
It seems like most of the nation is hot and dry or enduring storms of one type or another. We have lots to be sad and worry about, lots to be thankful for–and we are free, to a certain extent, to say what we want, do what we want, and explore, which is what I’ve been doing again for my upcoming book–Where Two Rivers Meet.
It all started with the comment my sister made about giants rumored to have been found back in the 1800s. “Giants,” I asked. She plagued about my memory again because I had never heard the tales….”Out near Clearwater Lake,” she said, trying to ‘shiver me timber’ memories. So I did an Internet search. Little else is known, and not much media was given any coverage, BUT:
“In the “Pioneer Press” of June 29, 1888, is an account of the discovery, twelve miles from Clearwater, N. E. 1/4, sec. 21, T. 121-27, by Charles W. Pinkerton, of the town of Corinna, of the remains of seven persons said to have been from seven to eight feet high.” Franklyn Curtiss-Wedge, History of Wright County, Minnesota, 1888.
We both started researching and took a few trips out to dig up graves where we knew they were supposed to be found–south of Clearwater. Our freedoms didn’t allow us to go on private properties. Following what we thought were the right coordinates, we drove on paved and dry roads with dust spraying the back of my SUV. Because so much has been developed, the area, Clearwater Lake, gave up no hints as to where we should look. When we got home the last time, we re-checked the coordinates and realized we were off a couple of sections.
I have to be honest, I’ve been known to travel on trails that aren’t posted private property (to my sister’s embarrassment and fear). But without a little brave/stupid hankering for answers, I would not have been able to write my first book, Steppes to Neu-Odessa, which is a biographical dictionary of Odessa Township, Yankton County, SD, and where the first German-Russians settled in the US–including mine). I don’t worry too much about not having an invitation, but I definitely won’t go where there is a warning, and I am not wanted. But if anyone gets a hankering or an invitation, let us know. We might follow along. I might also want to see the many, MANY, native mounds that surround a number of the lakes in this vicinity and the Clearwater River. Otherwise, I have the freedom to imagine what I want for the next book.
Hope you are still enjoying your Independence Day weekend on this Federal holiday. HOT! yes, but so much to do and find and explore.
ANYONE FOLLOWING ME?
On the road again,
Cindy
When we were working, my husband and I took yearly summer vacations. It turned out to be a sort of spur-of-decision where we’d head but often took off east. From Maine to the Keys, we traveled, stopping to see historic sites and breathe in the ocean air. Anything history from Acadia National Park to Fort Jefferson at Dry Tortugas National Park we explored inland and outlands, hardly a spot we did not explore up and down the coast. Our favorites, though, are Salem and Danvers, Massachusetts, where the Salem Witch Trials took place and affected many of my own ancestors’ lives. We have taken in many, if not most, of the Civil War historic sites and battlefields such as Gettysburg, Arlington National, Vicksburg, Chickamauga & Chattanooga National Military Park, Antietam, the list goes on. We drove right into Andersonville, at the end of the day but were ushered out after a short drive, yet not before we saw Minnesota’s memorial to our men.
Many of the Around Clearwater men as well as my ancestors enlisted, fought hard, suffered, and even died for our country.
One man I have been researching is Ellet Parcher Perkins. In the next of my Minnesota Main Street Women series, Ellet, a cousin of hers, accompanies my protagonist from Vermont to Minnesota when her brother-in-law writes her to come work as a hotel housekeeper in the early days of Clearwater. While this information may or not be fiction, the following isn’t. After enlistment, he rises from corporal to captain with great honors but suffers from his wounds the rest of his life. So many of these men fought while their wives and families took over the work at home. The same can be said for the other wars that followed. So much sacrifice on the battlefields and home front for our country.
This year Memorial Day, we will honor all who have suffered so much in war, https://www.britannica.com/topic/Memorial-Day (how Memorial Day was founded ) and now we include our thoughts and memories of those who fought Covid here at home. Those who fought to keep us healthy and those who died without their loved ones surrounding them with love.
It’s been a hard year, undoubtedly, but now as we head out to celebrate Memorial Day, let’s not forget all those who have fought for us and those who have sacrificed their lives.
Have a great weekend.
Cindy
Anna Jarvis, the founder of Mother’s Day, believed the country had a duty to all national mothers to celebrate them for their oftentimes sacrificial support for their love and care. The first known Sunday, a day of rest for God and mothers, began May 10, 1908. Parade’s online site has an article, “What is the history of Mother’s Day”? In 1914, Woodrow Wilson agreed with her and others and passed the bill for “Mother,” to be honored on the 2nd Sunday in May.
How did we celebrate Mother’s Day up to the time I became a mother? When we could, we gathered at my mom’s or aunt’s table, had a picnic sometimes, but we always focused on being together and eating. We gave Grandma, the one who started all this family for my generation, flowers for her rock garden. Her daughters help plant her favorites. The celebration was nothing super fancy, often, potluck, but laughter and happiness accompanied aunts and uncles, nieces and nephews, cousins, mothers and fathers, and of course, Grandpa with Grandma, around the table.
Whether we were at the old homestead or the kid’s homes, we came together to celebrate these women’s charitable contributions to their families. Time was set for this day, that special Sunday, and usually right after we attended church we’d either drive for another “over the river and through the woods” event or race home and get the table set for a houseful of company.
The honoring of mothers was not given a special day or set up as a holiday by the government during my novels’ timeframes. Maude’s and Jennie’s mothers in my Minnesota Main Street Women’s series were already dead by the time the days of focused respect came about. So many of my extended family members are out of the area. Getting together with cousins and their children won’t take place since we don’t have our mothers telling us what to do or insisting on TRADITION. I guess that is why we gather at weddings and funerals if we can to celebrate our familiness.
It is now the next generation’s turn, not mine anymore. Lives have become so busy, it is hard to get together period. And last year? Last year was the year of Zoom, phone calls, and lovely cards. We cannot fix that. Yet, our longing to be together was with us for the remaining 364 days. Let’s try to make up for lost time, remember mothers, grandmothers, aunts–all the women in your lives–by giving them a special moment carved out of busy, busy lives. We women have a lot of loving to do yet.
I am not sure you were able to listen to the interview I had today with Kelly Cordes “It Matters With Kelly Cordes,” on WJON. Here is the audio portion.
Cindy